I would like to share one of Secrets of Self-Improvement. Here is the secret: "For you have to become balanced autosuperarte selfish." As you read! Surprised you? You may be thinking, of course, if I have to go back to autosuperarme selfish, p esu step! I know you think because I, like you, I've been brought up not to "be selfish" in life. And like me, probably happened to you when you tried to procure for your well have scolded you: you only think about you! Others do not care! You are selfish! And little by little, I've become convinced that right is put at the end of the list (if another person or otherwise does not occupy that place). But have you ever taken a look at how you feel when others prioritize your expense? Perhaps you do not feel like the last big-eared jar? You really believe that this feeling does not pollute your relationships? This is not to be happy at the expense of others, but neither is it that would leave your happiness that of others, because e very time you do, you show those around you and showing you to yourself, you do not deserve nor your own care. And you know how it ends this: your self-esteem shattered into a thousand pieces on the floor. Take seriously your happiness because if you're not happy, believe me, you can not make anyone happy. By contrast, dyed your living areas (family, friends, work) with your unhappiness. You are still thinking that by putting the end of the list will improve something around you? .